perfectionism

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                                              Why is everyone looking for perfection?


My today's topic is why everyone looking for perfection ?. now what I am supposed to say might sound extreme, but I really believe that we are slowly killing ourself .what do I mean by that is everywhere I see   "Perfection".

why everyone is trying to be perfect ?. if you go to social platforms it is like a collection of all the insecurities we all have. the whole pop culture is literally becoming unreal. if we take an example music videos with millions of views are so polished, but the humans don't resemble humans anymore. how ridiculous is it? it is not about what you do but it is about how you look.

instead of looking perfect one should be trying to be decent by behavior, culture.one is recognized by his behavior.do you know what is truly important lies within you? let's take an example--

the pencil has two aspects to it, the outside which is beautiful colorful wooden casing & inside which is led, is very substance.similarly in our life as well we have outside & outside personality .our looks, our presence, no one looks as ugly as their driving license picture & no one looks as pretty as their Facebook profile picture.unless what is within you come out you can not make an impact.

therefore you may be able to leave an impact on people's minds by your behavior, looks do not play a role in such a situation .your emotions and feelings play a vital role in your whole life, not your looks.

perfectionism is a trait that makes life an endless reports result on accomplishment or looks.its is an attraction which makes you starving for perfection can be lead to negative outcomes like low confidence, avoid challenges, toxic comparisons,etc.and it can be caused to depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts.

Conclusion-

At the end of the topic, I recommend you stay away from a perfectionist . first of all, identify your self or you need it.some time we don't need to do things perfectly.good is enough good. adjust your standard .so start to recognize it in our own behavior and find the way that works best for you and apply in your life when it is needed

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